SICK OF SWIPING?

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I hear you sis. Modern dating can feel like the jungle. Cold, impersonal, and often a huge waste of time and effort.

But let me ask you this: what keeps you trying after you’ve repeatedly returned empty handed?⁣⁣⁣
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Let me let you in on a little secret:

we repeat our patterns until we heal from what’s creating them.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

We’re quick to pass blame on social media, dating apps, and modernization, instead of looking inward to see how we contribute to the culture we claim to hate.

And that’s precisely the problem: our attitude.
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The obstacle keeping you from enjoying healthy relationships with is dating from a mindset of scarcity.⁣⁣⁣
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Believing that the person you’re fixated on is what you deserve—because you’ve never taken the time and done the internal work to heal from that belief, so it keeps showing up in your dating style.⁣⁣⁣
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The people you meet pick up on that lack, so they only give you what you think you’re worth.⁣⁣⁣
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Ironically, those who need the most help are the most resistant to get it. They let money, time, and other surface excuses stand in the way. They believe they can figure it on their own (despite a relationship history proving otherwise). Underneath those excuses, is the fundamental belief that keeps them from becoming the magnetic people they truly are: fear.⁣⁣⁣
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Fear that doing the internal work will only uncover more unworthiness. I understand because I’ve been there.⁣⁣⁣
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But you‘re beautiful underneath, and you deserve a partner who reflects that beauty to you. Someone who high fives you during your wins and hold you through your losses.⁣⁣⁣
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I know that exists for you, because I’ve found it for myself, and I’ve helped others find it for themselves too.⁣⁣⁣
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But the first step has to come from you. I’m only there to guide you after you’ve made that leap.⁣⁣⁣
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Every day you spend putting in effort into the wrong person, is a day wasted on finding the right one.

TOGETHER WE’LL GET THEM CHASING AFTER YOU

OUR SESSIONS TOGETHER MAY COVER:

> A deeper understanding of what you’re looking for and how you’re going about it

> Your sense of worth:

> Your current texting/communication patters

> How to create a healthy amount of space in the beginning over text & in person

> How to gauge how a man feels about you by paying attention to his non-verbal cues

ARE YOU READY?